I wish I could be as
smart as Derek Davis was.
Fat is no longer ‘a feminist issue’ alone. It’s a health and fashion issue - for all. It always was. Face facts: fat is most associated with having
a low income, although genetic make-up and many other factors play their part; once it has been put on, the body has an in-built tendency to
return to its former highest weight. This is why many who diet fail to sustain their
weight loss and why attacking those who have weight on is inappropriate and counter-productive.
To demonise those putting on weight, or their parents, is to bully those often already
suffering.
You may have a lean mean physique. You may work hard to keep
it that way, sweating the calories off in the gym or on the road. Well done. I celebrate your success, health and wellbeing.
If you also need to hit out at the less fortunate then I question your
motivation. You want to add moral high ground to your accolades? Is your self
–worth so low? Is it built on body image? You are then about as unwell as the
rest of us.
All the indications are that we live in a society with an
eating disorder. Magazines sell best, now that Princess Diana is gone, when
they have something about weight, fat or food on the cover. We have anti-weight
campaigns and more cooking food programmes promoting sugar and fat ingredients
than ever before. See-saw weight gain-loss and an obsession with food are clear
indications of addiction. We photo-shop
images that no-one can live up to because they are not real and then we make
them an ideal to fail to live up to. It makes sense to be obsessed with food
when it is genuinely in short supply other than that, we have to ask: what else
is going on.
The short answer is that an industry is going on, an
industry with as many charlatans as academic experts. The second answer is that
industry as a whole needs more output from fewer workers to keep the economy
going.
Last Sunday,10th May, 2015, the retired broadcaster Derek Davis contributed to a conversation on the Marian Finucane Show about Obesity Policy, This week we are mourning his death. The panel agreed the focus needs to be on prevention,
starting with children. Children need to be allowed to play. They need to be
given space to run around and allowed out to safe-enough spaces we need to
ensure are created. We do need to exercise. We also need to get out more. We
need to address our false fears of the world out there. Having been a pscychotherapist
for many years I want to say that many of those are generated by fear in here –
internal fear generated by the false myths we need to stop promulgating. We
also need to face the fact that life is uncertain: we can contribute to
outcomes but we can’t control them. Counteracting obesity begins best with breast-feeding which brings us back to the question of work lifestyle balance and the need for companies to be
more conscious that mothers need to breastfeed and that companies need women if
they are to succeed best so action is needed here too.
I never thought I’d write on this issue. I didn’t want to
join the obsession. It is a tragedy that in the last week of Derek Davis’ life he
had to say, ‘I am sitting here getting angry…’ as he listened to Sinead Ryan, introduced
as the Consumer and Property Analyst from The Irish Independent, who had
castigated the parents of overweight children. Davis talked about what is known
as Fat Guilt and how G.Ps. and others are ‘not up to speed on obesity.’ It is ‘profoundly
anger inducing …only feeds the so-called fat industry’ including its' charlatans’.
We owe it to the memory of a generous man to deal with our communal addiction:
face our fear and address best eating and exercise habits in a way that is both
fair and respectful. I wish I could be as smart as Derek Davis was. I loved
hearing a replay of him talking about books to George Hook this week. I wanted more.
http://www.rte.ie/radio1/marian-finucane/ Sunday 10th May. Click on Obesity
Policy
http://www.newstalk.com/podcasts/The_Right_Hook/
click on ‘Remembering Derek Davis’
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